REESELAW BLOG

Going through a change in your family composition can be a challenging and overwhelming experience, often making it feel like you have lost control over your life. It may feel as though your former partner, coparent, the lawyers, the court, and various other individuals have a say in your future without having to consider what you might want. This situation can be frustrating and destabilizing. Although it is not possible to regain control entirely, there are concrete steps you can take to manage certain aspects of the process, giving you a voice.

Staying Organized

No matter the complexity of a family law matter, there are key pieces of information that need to be circulated. For example, information regarding your financial needs and those of your family. Financial documents are a critical component of questions related to division of assets in a divorce or a prenuptial agreement, or income data when calculating child support. Consolidate and organize your records to gain an accurate picture. This will help you make decisions about how to proceed. You may not have a record of some issues, so make a practice of writing down facts, dates, and events so that you do not forget them. Your attorney can help you create a checklist of necessary documents and other information to give you a place to start.

Utilizing Your Attorney's Expertise

You have employed counsel to help you through the legal issues, so remember that your attorney has experience which can be incredibly useful. When they offer guidance or request information, ensure that you have thoroughly absorbed what is being said, and ask clarifying questions to make the most of the interaction. Carefully read emails and other communications from your attorney to avoid missing out on essential information. Follow up on any action items as soon as possible and stay open to suggestions on how to best handle issues that arise. Keep in mind that it is always best to be candid with your attorney, even if you feel that it may reflect negatively on you. Your lawyer is there to offer counsel regardless of the situation, but if they do not know the whole picture, their suggestions may not be as effective, leading to wasted time and money dealing with something revealed late in the day, or by the opposing party.

Making the Most of Attorney Communications

Even a brief call can relay important information, which may require an action or a change in strategy for your case. Be strategic in your communications and requests and respond fully when asked. Prepare for your calls and meetings with your attorney and take notes regarding action items. This will help keep the expenses down and avoid costs associated with follow-up from your attorney to re-answer questions or make another request for a critical piece of information. Good communication allows your attorney to provide better guidance, and to better speak on your behalf, amplifying your wants and your voice.

Legal matters can be overwhelming, but certain aspects of the processes employed to resolve a family law matter are in your power to influence. Organization, preparation, and communication will help you exercise control over the process, and feel like you are engaging in rather than being buffeted by it. ReeseLaw, P.C., is here to help. Contact us to set up a consultation for your family law matter today.